Monday, August 9, 2010

A Woman's Worth

" Cause a real man, knows a real woman, when he sees her..."

Emphasis on the word "REAL"

What is a real man, what is a real woman....and how do you know you have found one?
Well...u just have to look the basics of manhood and womanhood and see if the person is going towards those or against those...
Manhood...men are taught to protect and provide. 
Womanhood...women are taught to love, to nurture, to support. 

So, if you have a man who makes it his major business to take care of you, financially and otherwise, and to make sure that at all costs, ALL COSTS, you are safe and secure...he is a man.
If you have a woman, who loves you with all of her being without conditions, she takes care of you and lets you know you are appreciated, and she stands by you...she is a woman. 
A woman will still be a woman, even if you are not a man...and vice versa.  She may cease loving, nurturing, and supporting you....but she will forever be those things to the man who provides and protects her.  Same for a man...if you are loving him, taking care of him, and supporting him...he is going to provide and protect for you, period.  If he is not, he does not quite understand what being a man is about...

Part of that protection and providing...is about honoring you.  He loves you, he wants to see that you have everything you need and want.  He wants to make sure you are happy, you are smiling, and you are able to give him what he needs, because you have what you need.  He will keep his word, he will adhere to your standards, and he will be the man that you need him to be, in order for you to stay with him.  If you have only some of that, you have what older people like to call a "piece'o'man"...and you should want and you deserve a whole man....one with arms, legs, shoulders, a brain, a heart, and courage. 

A real man knows a woman's worth.  He knows that he cannot get that kind of love and support from anyone else, and no matter how close he and his friends are, he and his mother are, or he and his brothers are...he will honor you and keep you...and provide and protect, because he knows your worth. 

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